My wallet size is right now at ~9GB, and the height is the same as the main blockchain.
Before you leave and re-join Space pool, check your harvester / farmer logs:
grep harvester debug.log
2022-01-07T11:47:56.980 harvester chia.harvester.harvester: INFO refresh_batch: event started, loaded 0, removed 0, processed 0, remaining 1182, duration: 0.00 seconds
2022-01-07T11:47:57.056 harvester chia.harvester.harvester: INFO refresh_batch: event batch_processed, loaded 0, removed 0, processed 300, remaining 882, duration: 0.02 seconds
...
2022-01-07T11:47:57.136 harvester chia.harvester.harvester: INFO refresh_batch: event done, loaded 0, removed 0, processed 1182, remaining 0, duration: 0.02 seconds
2022-01-07T11:48:00.496 harvester chia.harvester.harvester: INFO 0 plots were eligible for farming d91ba98e82... Found 4 proofs. Time: 1.89092 s. Total 1182 plots
2022-01-07T11:48:08.761 harvester chia.harvester.harvester: INFO 4 plots were eligible for farming d91ba98e82... Found 3 proofs. Time: 1.43725 s. Total 1182 plots
grep farmer debug.log
2022-01-07T11:51:51.449 farmer chia.farmer.farmer : INFO Submitting partial for 123456789012345678901234567890123456789012345678901234567890 to https://xch-us-west.flexpool.io
2022-01-07T11:51:51.925 farmer chia.farmer.farmer : INFO Pool response: {'new_difficulty': 1}
...
2022-01-07T11:53:59.403 farmer chia.farmer.farmer : INFO Pool response: {'error_code': 2, 'error_message': 'The partial is too late. Make sure your proof of space lookups are fast, and network connectivity is good. Response must happen in less than 25 seconds, but the partial was received in 28 seconds. NAS or network farming can be an issue'}
2022-01-07T11:53:59.403 farmer chia.farmer.farmer : ERROR Error in pooling: (2, 'The partial is too late. Make sure your proof of space lookups are fast, and network connectivity is good. Response must happen in less than 25 seconds, but the partial was received in 28 seconds. NAS or network farming can be an issue')
2022-01-03T01:38:39.374 farmer chia.farmer.farmer : INFO GET /pool_info response: {'name': 'Space Pool', 'logo_url': 'https://pool.space/logo-250.png', 'minimum_difficulty': 1, 'relative_lock_height': 64, 'protocol_version': 1, 'fee': 0.01, 'description': 'Welcome to Space Pool. By creating this Plot NFT, you agree to the following terms https://pool.space/terms', 'target_puzzle_hash': '123456789012345678901234567890', 'authentication_token_timeout': 5}
2022-01-03T01:42:48.217 farmer chia.farmer.farmer : ERROR Failed to update farmer information on the pool https://asia1.pool.space
Those harvester lines indicate that your harvester is searching (every 2 mins) for new/removed plots, and also that is receiving challenges from the farmer, and either finds something or not based on those challenges.
And those farmer responses show that your farmer is at least trying to submit something to your pool (flex in my case), and that from time to time, your pool is providing some kind of status (Pool response:).
I also have one NFT connected to Space pool, but with zero plots, so am getting that error responses from it.
Yeah, I think that I am getting those stales after I upgraded to v1.2.11.